Happy Singles Awareness Day!
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...For this was on Saint Valentine’s Day,
When ev’ry fowl cometh to choose her mate...
- Chaucer, "Parlement of Foules"
My copy of vol. 2 of the official TGCF translation arrived a day ahead of schedule – a lovely Valentine's Day surprise! <3

It's hard to believe, but I think it might be even prettier than vol. 1!
When I started reading TGCF, I thought of myself as someone who didn't care much about romance narratives; by the time I finished it, I was crying about how much Hualian love each other. So it's basically my ideal book to re-read on Valentine's Day.
I'm single, so painting hearts on my nails last night and eating some chocolate while reading tropey romantic fic today are the only things I had planned this year. What about you? Anything special?
When ev’ry fowl cometh to choose her mate...
- Chaucer, "Parlement of Foules"
My copy of vol. 2 of the official TGCF translation arrived a day ahead of schedule – a lovely Valentine's Day surprise! <3

It's hard to believe, but I think it might be even prettier than vol. 1!
When I started reading TGCF, I thought of myself as someone who didn't care much about romance narratives; by the time I finished it, I was crying about how much Hualian love each other. So it's basically my ideal book to re-read on Valentine's Day.
I'm single, so painting hearts on my nails last night and eating some chocolate while reading tropey romantic fic today are the only things I had planned this year. What about you? Anything special?
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Date: 2022-02-14 10:33 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2022-02-14 10:49 pm (UTC)SWTOR is going to be wild tonight – there are a bunch of achievements that are going away after the update, so the cheevo-hunters are frantically trying to get them while they can.
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Date: 2022-02-14 11:06 pm (UTC)Then in that case, I will be not playing SWTOR. I'm at a good stopping point; I finished Taris and holy cow my reaction to the plague now is different than it would have been several years ago.
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Date: 2022-02-14 11:41 pm (UTC)I think people will mostly be doing operations, so I wouldn't expect it to have general impact if you do feel like playing tonight.
I totally feel you about Taris – I only started playing in earnest when the lockdown started, almost (good lord) two years ago now, and it definitely hit in a way it wouldn't have otherwise.
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Date: 2022-02-14 11:52 pm (UTC)I don't want to deal with the potential crowds. I don't know if this is a normal thing or not, but in the past few days, I've had random players run up, kill whatever I'm fighting, and then go on their way and it's a little irksome. And I really do need to get my butt in gear with my Big Bang, so I need to behave and finish that before I start Nar Shaddaa.
...Two years. It feels like forever.
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Date: 2022-02-15 03:03 am (UTC)Given the excitement of the update, I'd anticipate even more folks on in the next few days, just fyi.
Now entering Year 3 of March 2020...
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Date: 2022-02-14 11:27 pm (UTC)Valentine doesn't have a tradition in Germany; the really important holiday in Feburary is Fasching, Carnival, for those who care about. *g* I don't, and I'm not interested in Valentine either, TBH - it appeared some day, like Halloween, but has mostly stayed a highly commercialised holiday so I particularly don't care about it as this is something I dislike. (Halloween, at least, is by now also somewhat established as a holiday in its own right.) But what I do enjoy about Valentine is that it created the origin of the fannish Tolkien exchange I consider as my main fannish exchange and have participated every year since 2014 with one exception, I think: My Slashy Valentine, with the reveals happening on the 14th. So earlier this evening I not only got my own lovely gift but also the masterlist to a larger than ever collection of terrific fanfic. Guess what I'll be doing for the rest of the night! ^^
About the relationship part: I'm married since nearly 25 years, but we're both not romantically inclined, so we don't even do much - or anything - on our wedding day. *g* I much prefer what he's doing for me at all time anyway. The Valentine industry would quite despair about us! *ggg*
No, really, I find having a pot of tea waiting for me when I get up, or him going grocery shopping when I can't deal with people much more romantic than anything that is generally considered as such.
Your nails look very pretty!
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Date: 2022-02-15 03:06 am (UTC)Oh, I forgot about My Slashy Valentine – I've never participated, but I will definitely be checking out the collection soon!
That is so very sweet! I can't say I know anything about truly long-term relationships beyond what I've seen in my (step)parents, but even that's enough to see that grand gestures can't make up for a lack of loving consideration in the ordinary course of life.
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Date: 2022-02-15 05:38 am (UTC)I spent today enjoying the yearly deluge of funny and punny Valentine's cards! People are so clever and talented :)
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Date: 2022-02-15 02:29 pm (UTC)Yes, that's one of my absolute favorite parts too – the corny cards! I'm very sad to see that the classic Comic Sans Valentine has become less common on Tumblr these days than it was a few years ago, but I do have some old favorites, including this great joke by @thoodleoo based on Catullus 2:
And this is my own contribution to the genre from eight (!!!) years back:
(As you can likely tell, I was in high school chemistry when I made that one.)
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Date: 2022-02-15 02:19 pm (UTC)The first season of the donghua is out on Netflix and other places, and it's very good! As with MDZS, it seems to be less censored than the live action.
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Date: 2022-02-15 11:58 am (UTC)Yum, chocolate.
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